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Mount Holyoke College   Class of 1974
REUNION BOOK And
DIRECTORY 

Twenty-Fifth Reunion  May 21 – 23, 1999
South Hadley, Massachusetts
 

“Every time I come back to reunion, I am amazed at the durability and resilience of MHC women.  It invigorates me, makes me proud.  There is a bond whenever and wherever you meet an MHC woman.”  Member of the Class of 1974

 Reunion Book Staff

Special Thanks to Lynn Johnson Dodge, Karla Knight, Carole LaMond, Ellie McGrath, Doris O’Keefe and Karen Weikert Weston
Reunion Committee Chairs   Carole LaMond   Reunion Chair   Beverly Campbell Moore   Reunion Co-Chair  
Reunion Gift Co-Chairs   Jane Zimmy and Debby Hall 
Questionnaire Co-Chairs   Jackie Leavitt Stafford and Lynn Johnson Dodge
 Parade Costume Chair   Marian Buff Spencer 
Parade Sign Chair    Jane Homan Antin 
Friday Dinner Chair   Sandra Beers Tuttle 
Friday Auction Co-Chairs   Cynthia Polk-Allen and LaVida Dowdell
Saturday Dinner Chair   Jackie Gagnon Pueschel 
Entertainment Chair   Robyn Davis Szewczyk 
Room Chair   Sharon Nelson-Barber
Assisted by Ranartha Jackson and Judith Johnson
 Hospitality Chairs   Janet Bagley Foley   Gail LaBroad LaRocca   Debbie Foss Farrell
 Reunion Scribe   Marcia Halstead 


In Memory of Our Family Members

“She was instrumental in allowing me (financially) and encouraging me (emotionally, socially, spiritually and every other way) to go to Mount Holyoke College.  She died April 6, 1996.”  Molly Allison in dedicating her reunion gift to the memory of her mother Molly Kirk Myers.

Else & Torkild Albertsen   Helen and Albert Baier   H. Roger Broadley   Eric Corkhill   James and Gail   Degan   Elizabeth Byrne Etzel   Dr. and Mrs. Robert Holliday   William E. Homan   Armig G. Kandoian   Charlotte Kunz LaMond   Jay Madigan   Molly Kirk Myers   Irene Solso   Mabel J. Thomas   Dorothy H. Young

And in Memory of Our Classmates

“In 1972-73 I had the time of my life, and it was due largely to one person: Nancy Jane Jacobson.  That was the year that Nancy and I spent out Junior Year Abroad in Paris and what a year it was.  Although we didn’t room together and didn’t study with the same programs, we did most of our road-tripping together and laughed our way across Europe…Nancy made the traveling fun even when nothing seemed to go right.  Somehow it all seemed funny.  We were young.  We were carefree.  We were adventurous.  We were the happy wanderers.  Travel will never be the same for me again.”  Janet Wilkov Twomey in a tribute to our classmate Nancy J. Jacobson.  Nancy died August 9, 1992. 

Deborah E. Bernton      Mary E. Bogel   Gretchen E. Crossley   Dorothy J. Dalbec   Vivian J. Fagg   Nancy   E. Fulton   Pamela C. George   Marilee D. Hull   Nancy J. Jacobson   Susan L. Jones 


Timeline: A Look Back, 1952-1998

By Doris O’Keefe 

Not long ago I read that each generation is defined by the first historical event stored in its’ collective memory.  For most of us that historical event is connected in some way with the Kennedy era – his election in 1960, his commitment to the space race, or his assassination in 1963.  Carole LaMond also recalls reading that a generation can be defined by the first odor stored in its’ collective memory, and says for us it is Play-Doh.

 

This timeline is meant to stir our collective memory as to the historical events and cultural trends that have shaped the second half of the 20th Century, and thus, our lives.  It begins in 1952, the year in which most of us were born, and ends with the political scandal of 1998 (pity the generation whose first collective memory is of President Clinton and Monica Lewinsky) and the crisis in Kosovo.  Coming as it does, near the end of the century (and the millennium), our 25th Reunion seems a particularly appropriate time for looking back at the same time as we look ahead. 


 

1952    American Bandstand premieres on ABC TV; Mad magazine and the National Enquirer debut on news stands.

            “I like Ike:” Dwight D. Eisenhower is elected president.

1953    Dr. Jonas Salk announces the discovery of the polio vaccine.

            Edmund Hillary and Tensing Norkay reach the summit of Mount Everest.

            Elizabeth II is crowned Queen of Great Britain.

            Ian Fleming publishes the first James Bond novel, Hugh Hefner publishes the first issue of Playboy, and IBM introduces its first computer (the 701).

            The first of McDonald’s Golden Arches is constructed in Phoenix, Arizona.

1954    Roger Bannister breaks the four-minute mile.

            Ho Chi Minh defeats the French at Dienbienphu.

            In its decision, Brown vs. The Board of Education of Topeka, Kansas, the Supreme Court rules that segregated education is illegal.

            Lord of the Flies, Lord of the Rings, and the first issue of Sports Illustrated are published; The Tonight Show (with Steve Allen as host) debuts on NBC TV.

            The McCarthy hearings are carried live on TV in April and May; in December the Senate condemns the Wisconsin senator and the McCarthy Era comes to an end.

1955    The Lawrence Welk Show, Captain Kangaroo and the Mickey Mouse Club all debut in 1955; President Eisenhower holds the first presidential TV conference.

            President Eisenhower signs the law that requires the inscription “In God We Trust” on all U.S. currency.

            Disneyland opens in Anaheim, California.

            The first can of Play-Doh is sold.

            Mrs. Rosa Parks refuses to give up her seat to a white man on a bus in Montgomery, Alabama and is arrested.  Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. organizes a year-long boycott of the bus system by most of the black community of Montgomery.  Buses were integrated on Dec. 21, 1956.

1956    My Fair Lady by Lerner & Lowe captures the hearts of theater-goers; Peyton Place, a novel about small-town sex and intrigue, is a best-seller.

            Grace Kelly marries Prince Ranier of Monaco.

            The minimum wage is raised to $1.00 an hour.

            Nikita Khrushchev declares, “We will bury you!”

1957    1,000 computers are built, bought and delivered this year.

            Sputnik is launched by the Soviet Union.

            President Eisenhower orders federal troops to Little Rock, Arkansas to enforce court-ordered desegregation of the public schools.

            The Dodgers play their last game at Ebbet’s Field in Brooklyn – and move to Los Angeles.

1958    The first American satellite, Explorer I, is launched.

            The hula hoop creates a short-lived craze in which 100-200 million are sold in a period of six months.

            NASA is created by the passage of the National Aeronautics and Space Act.

            John Kenneth Galbraith coins the phrase “the affluent society.”

            BOAC (British Overseas Airways Corporation) establishes the first transatlantic passenger jet service between New York and London.

            The first women are admitted to Britain’s House of Lords.

1959    Fidel Castro overthrows the Batista regime in Cuba.

            China crushes a revolt in Tibet, and the Dalai Lama flees to India.

            Alaska and Hawaii become the 49th and 50th states.

            Mattel, Inc. introduces the original Barbie Doll – and velcro hits the market.

1960    “Let’s do the twist!”

            New inventions include teflon,
lasers, felt-tip pens, and The Pill.

            Psycho, by Alfred Hitchcock, sets a new tone for horror movies.

            The U.S. U-2 reconnaissance plane piloted by Gray Powers is shot down over the Soviet Union.

            The word Xerox becomes a verb.

            President Eisenhower coins the phrase “military industrial complex.”

            John F. Kennedy is elected president.

1961    President Kennedy establishes the Peace Corps.

            In an effort to “liberate” Cuba 1500 Cuban refugees land at the Bay of Pigs – all are killed or captured by Castro’s army.

            The Russian Yuri Gagarin, becomes the first man in space – he completes one orbit in 89.1 minutes.

            Alan Shepard, the first American in space, makes a sub-orbital flight.

            The Soviet ballet dancer Rudolf Nureyev defects to the West.

            President Kennedy dispatches 100 additional military advisors and 400 Special Forces soldiers to Vietnam.  By the end of the year there are 3,200 U.S. troops in Vietnam.

            East Germany closes the Brandenburg Gate and seals the border between East and West Berlin.

            Both the Soviet Union and the U.S. resume testing of nuclear weapons.

            Nazi war criminal Adolf Eichmann is sentenced to death and executed.

            Cigarette manufacturers spend $115 million on TV advertising.

            Roger Maris hits 61 home runs, breaking Babe Ruth’s record of 60 home runs set in 1927.

1962    John Glenn is the first American to orbit the Earth.

            The Pentagon announces that U.S. pilots are flying combat missions in Vietnam; by the end of the year there are 11,300 U.S. troops in Vietnam.

            Rachel Carson’s book Silent Spring raises awareness of the dangers of DDT and other pesticides.

            Johnny Carson succeeds Jack Paar as the host of The Tonight Show.

            The Cuban Missile Crisis and the threat of nuclear war preoccupy the president and the American people.

            Vatican Council II, convened by Pope John XXIII in 1962 and completed under Pope Paul VI in 1965, changes the face of the Mass and confirms the position of the Catholic Church on many issues.

1963    AT&T introduces the touch-tone telephone.

            The Beverly Hillbillies is the top television show – and elephant jokes are the rage.

            When he is sworn in as governor of Alabama, George Wallace pledges “Segregation now, segregation tomorrow, and segregation forever.”

            More than 200,000 people take part in the march on Washington in the cause of civil rights and racial equality.  Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. delivers his stirring “I have a dream” speech.

            The Supreme Court rules that reading the Bible and reciting the Lord’s Prayer in public schools is unconstitutional.

            President Kennedy is assassinated in Dallas, Texas.

1964    The Beatles visit the U.S. for the first time and appear on The Ed Sullivan Show, 10 million of their records are sold in the U.S.

            President Johnson signs the Civil Rights Act into law.

            A thousand young civil rights workers head to Mississippi for the summer.  Three of them disappear after conducting a black voter registration drive; their bodies are later found buried in an earthen dam.

            Congress approves the Gulf of Tonkin resolution giving the president power “to take all necessary measures to repel any armed attack against the forces of the United States, and to prevent further aggression.”  By the end of this year there are 23,300 American troops in Vietnam.

1965    President Johnson calls for the creation of the Great Society in his State of the Union address.

            Bell bottom trousers, mini-skirts, and white go-go boots are the latest fashions; Frisbees and lava lamps are the latest fads.

            New and popular TV series are Hogan’s Heroes, My Mother the Car, Get Smart, and The Man from U.N.C.L.E.

            Riots plague the Watts section of Los Angeles for six days in August.

            The Government confirms that Americans are undertaking combat missions in Vietnam.  Anti-Vietnam rallies are held in 40 cities across the country.

            A massive power blackout affects the northeastern U.S., Ontario and Quebec.

1966    Dr. Robert Weaver, secretary of HUD, is the first black Cabinet member in U.S. history.

            The National Organization of Women (NOW) is established and headed by Betty Freidan.

            TV’s biggest hit – Batman – airs twice a week.  StarTrek takes a while to catch on.

            The Cultural Revolution begins in China.

            Richard Speck murders eight student nurses in a Chicago dormitory.  At Austin, Texas, Charles Whitman shoots and kills 16 people, most from a tower on the campus of the University of Texas, before he is killed by police.

            5,008 Americans die in Vietnam; 52,500, in traffic accidents at home.  President Johnson signs sweeping automobile legislation.

1967    The first Super Bowl game is played in Los Angeles: the Green Bay Packers beat the Kansas City Chiefs by a score of 35 to 10.

            In NASA’s first disaster Virgil I. Grissom, Edward H, White and Roger B. Chaffee are killed in a flash fire inside an Apollo space capsule during a ground test.

            The Arabs and Israelis fight the Six-Day War.

            The year of “the long hot summer” is marked by urban and racial anger and violence.

            The first home microwave is introduced by Amana.

            Thurgood Marshall is sworn in as the first black justice on the Supreme Court.

            The first successful heart transplant is performed by Dr. Christian Barnard in Cape Town, South Africa.

1968    The Kerner Commission reports that the U.S. is moving toward two societies “one black, one white – separate and unequal.”

            The My Lai massacre of March 16th is covered up by the Army until November, 1969.

            Civil rights leader Martin Luther King, Jr. is shot and killed in Memphis on April 4th.  Within hours, riots erupt in 125 cities.  It takes 55,000 federal troops and 21,270 arrests to quell the riots which leave 46 dead.

            Cesar Chavez organizes a nationwide boycott of grapes.

            Robert F. Kennedy is fatally shot in Los Angeles after winning the California presidential primary in June.  Riots occur at the Democratic Party Convention at Chicago in August.

            The 911 emergency system is established in New York City.  The number is adopted eventually throughout the country.

            Richard Nixon is elected president.

            The crew of Apollo 8 are the first to orbit the moon; they broadcast the spectacular image of the earth rising above the lunar surface.

1969    American astronauts Neil Armstrong and Buzz Aldrin take a walk on the moon, “That’s one small step for man, one giant step for mankind.”

            British troops arrive in Northern Ireland to intervene in the sectarian violence between Catholics and Protestants, marking the beginning of “The Troubles.”

            A half million people gather for the rock music event at Woodstock, N.Y.

            Sesame Street debuts as a radical shift in television programming for children.

1970    Apollo 13 survives near-disaster after an oxygen tank explodes in the service module.

            The U.S. invasion of Cambodia leads to widespread and violent anti-war demonstrations at home.  In the worst incident four students at Kent State University in Ohio are killed by National Guardsmen.

            The Class of 1974 arrives at Mount Holyoke College.

1971    All in the Family is the TV hit of the year.

            The minimum voting age is lowered to 18 by the 26th amendment to the Constitution.

            The first hand-held calculator is marketed at a list price of $249.00.

            Nationalist China is expelled from the United Nations in favor of the People’s Republic of China.

1972    Gloria Steinem, et. al., publish the first issue of Ms. magazine.

            Police apprehend five men attempting to bug the headquarters of the Democratic National Committee located in the Watergate Complex in Washington.

            American swimmer Mark Spitz wins a record seven gold medals at the summer Olympic Games in Munich. The world watches as eight Arab commandos raid the dormitory housing the Israeli team and take 11 hostages.  During a gun battle with German police at the airport all of the hostages, five of the commandos, and one policeman are killed.

            CAT (computerized axial tomography) scans are introduced in England.

            Congress passes the Education Amendments Act; Title IX forbids sex discrimination in any educational institution receiving federal funds and is used to promote athletic opportunities for women.

            President Nixon is re-elected in a landslide.  Massachusetts voters sport bumper sticker “Don’t blame me.”

            The Dow Jones Industrial Average breaks 1,000 points for the first time in its history.

1973    In the decision of Roe vs. Wade, the Supreme Court legalizes abortion.

            The Watergate scandal unfolds.  The House Judiciary Committee begins impeachment hearings and televised Senate hearings give the American people a close look at political corruption.  In November Nixon declares “I am not a crook.”

            Alexander Solzenitsyn’s The Gulag Archipelago is released.

            In the “Battle of the Sexes” Billy Jean King defeats Bobby Riggs in tennis.

            Vice President Sprio T. Agnew resigns after pleading no contest to charges of income tax evasion.  Nixon nominates Gerald Ford to replace him.

            Drivers experience long lines at gas pumps, the result of the Arab oil embargo.

1974    Streaking is the latest fad.

            Hank Aaron hits his 715th career home run and breaks Babe Ruth’s record, which had stood for 47 years.

            The House Judiciary Committee releases volumes of evidence collected in its Watergate inquiry and recommends that President Nixon be impeached for obstruction of justice, failure to uphold the law, and refusal to produce subpoenaed material.  The president resigns.

1975    Ella T. Grasso, MHC ‘40, becomes governor of Connecticut.  She is the first woman governor whose husband did not precede her.

            Mood rings are the latest fad.

            American and Soviet astronauts link their orbiting spacecraft signifying the end of the space race.

            Jimmy Hoffa, the head of the Teamster’s Union, disappears.

            An emergency helicopter evacuation removes the last 1,100 American from Vietnam as Saigon falls to North Vietnamese troops.

            The Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) is introduced in Congress (and never ratified).

            The final episode of Gunsmoke airs after a run of 20 seasons.  Saturday Night (later renamed Saturday Night Live) makes its debut.

1976    The Concorde commences regular commercial transatlantic service.

            Tandy and Apple market the first personal computers.

            Americans celebrate the Bicentennial.

            Jimmy Carter is elected president by a narrow margin over President Ford.

1977    The miniseries Roots attracts 80 million TV viewers.  Star Wars and Close Encounters of the Third Kind are box office hits.

            Elvis Presley dies at the age of 42.

1978    Dallas premieres as the first prime-time soap opera.

            The world’s first test-tube baby is born in Oldham, England.

            The Camp David accords are signed by Egypt and Israel.

            The cult settlement at Jonestown, Guyana, commits mass suicide.

1979    The Shah of Iran is deposed, and the Ayatollah Khomeini makes a triumphant return to that country.

            A near-disaster at the Three Mile Island nuclear power plant near Harrisburg, Pa., is regarded as America’s worst nuclear accident.  It and the prophetic movie The China Syndrome give strength to the anti-nuclear movement.

            The Conservative Party wins the general election in Great Britain and Margaret Thatcher becomes prime minister.

            Iranian militants seize the U.S. Embassy in Tehran – 63 Americans are among the 90 taken hostage.

1980    Post-it notes are introduced and show up on inter-office memos and refrigerator doors.

            In April eight U.S. servicemen are killed in a failed attempt to rescue the hostages in the U.S. Embassy in Iran.

            The U.S. team – and dozens of other countries – boycott the summer Olympic Games at Moscow because of Soviet intervention in Afghanistan.

            Solidarity, the Polish workers union, is organized under the leadership of Lech Walesa.

            Ronald Reagan is elected president.

            Former Beatle John Lennon is shot and killed outside his NYC apartment.

1981    The Iranian crisis ends with the release of the hostages on Reagan’s inauguration day.

            The genre of old-fashioned adventure movie is revived by Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark.

            The “fairy tale” wedding between Prince Charles and Diana Spencer is a major media event.

            The space shuttle makes its maiden voyage.

            Sandra Day O’Connor becomes the first female justice on the U.S. Supreme Court.

1982    Great Britain and Argentina fight a war over the Falkland Islands.

            The Vietnam Veteran’s Memorial is dedicated in Washington, D.C.

            Cheers makes its debut.

            USA Today commences publication, calling itself “the Nation’s newspaper.”

            Seven people in the Chicago area die after taking Tylenol capsules laced with cyanide.

1983    The final episode of M*A*S*H attracts 121,624,000 viewers.

            Shuttle astronaut Sally K. Ride is America’s first woman in space.  Lt. Col. Guion S. Bluford is the first black astronaut.

            Terrorists attack the U.S. Marine headquarters at Beirut, Lebanon, killing more than 200 marines.

            The U.S. invades the small Caribbean nation of Grenada.

            Cabbage Patch dolls create pre-Christmas pandemonium.

1984    Chrysler minivans (the Plymouth Voyager and Dodge Caravan) establish a new vogue in family cars.

            Geraldine Ferraro, the Democratic Party nominee for Vice President, is the first woman candidate for national office.

            President Reagan is re-elected in the greatest Republican landslide in history.

            Toxic fumes leaking from a Union Carbide plant in Bhopal, India, kill more than 3,000 and injure 20,000 more.

1985    Mikhail Gorbachev emerges as the new leader of the Soviet Union. A summit meeting between Reagan and Gorbachev in Geneva brings the two nations closer together.

            The wreck of the Titanic is located 560 miles off the coast of Newfoundland.

            Members of the Palestine Liberation Front hijack the Italian cruise ship Achille Lauro.

1986    The space shuttle Challenger explodes immediately after liftofff killing all seven astronauts, including schoolteacher Christa McAuliffe, who is the first private citizen selected to go into space.

            For the first time in history American women outnumber men in professional positions.

            The International Court of Justice at The Hague rules that the U.S. has broken international law and violated the sovereignty of Nicaragua by aiding the Contras.  Later the Iran-Contra arms for hostages deal is revealed in a report from Tehran.

 

1987    The Dow tops 2,000 in January and 2,700 in August.  On October 19th the stock market plunges 508 points in the largest one-day drop in history.  The next day it rises 107 points, to that date the largest one-day advance.

            Iran-Contra hearings get under way in Congress.  Two Reagan nominees to the Supreme Court fail; Robert Bork’s nomination is rejected by the Senate; Douglas H. Ginsburg withdraws his nomination when the public reacts negatively to his youthful use marijuana.

1988    The California raisins become celebrities, and the animated movie Who Framed Roger Rabbit? is a box office hit.

            The Phantom of the Opera is a runaway hit on Broadway.

            NASA’s James E. Hansen warns a Senate panel that global warming, caused by pollution creating a greenhouse effect, is already underway.

            George Bush is elected president.  In his campaign he pledges, “Read my lips, no new taxes.”

1989    The tanker Exxon Valdez runs aground in Alaska’s Prince William Sound spilling 11 million gallons of crude oil.

            More than 10,000 pro-democracy protesters occupy Tiananmen Square in Beijing.  After a month some 5,000 students remain and on June 3rd-4th they are assaulted and suppressed by the Chinese army.

            The 7.1 Loma Prieta earthquake hits San Francisco just as the World Series is about to start at Candlestick Park.

            The Berlin Wall falls.

1990    Iraqui forces invade Kuwait; within a week U.S. troops are deployed in Saudi Arabia for Operation Desert Shield.

            McDonald’s opens its first restaurant in the U.S.S.R.

1991    Three years after the end of the Cold War the U.S.S.R. dissolves.

            Kuwait is freed after bombing raids and a 100-hour ground war (Operation Desert Storm) – all carried live on CNN.

            Senate confirmation hearings on the appointment of Clarence Thomas to the Supreme Court focus on charges of sexual harassment brought by Anita Hill.

1992    EuroDisney opens near Paris.

            After 30 years, Johnny Carson retires as the host of The Tonight Show.

            Rioting erupts in Los Angeles when the four white L.A. police officers charged with the Rodney King beating are acquitted.

            Bill Clinton is elected president.

1993    One of the worst winter storms of the century lashes the East Coast from Atlanta to Boston causing nearly 100 deaths.

            Terrorists bomb the World Trade Center in N.Y.C.

            The standoff between the FBI and the Branch Davidians at Waco, Texas, ends with the death of many cult members in an inferno.

            The final episode of Cheers airs on May 20th.

            Floods of the Mississippi, Missouri and Kansas Rivers put 20 million acres under water.

1994    An earthquake measuring 6.6 on the Richter Scale topples freeways, bursts water mains, and ignites fires in Los Angeles,

            O.J. Simpson is charged with the murders of his ex-wife, Nicole Brown Simpson, and Ron Goldman; the “Bronco chase” is carried live on TV.

            The World Series is cancelled by a baseball players’ strike.

1995    168 men, women and children are killed when the Alfred Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City is bombed.

            20 years after the fall of Saigon, the U.S. extends diplomatic recognition to Vietnam.

            O.J. Simpson is tried and acquitted.

            The U.S. government shuts down when President Clinton and Congress fail to reach a budget agreement.

1996    Theodore Kaczynksi, the suspected Unabomber, is arrested.

            TWA Flight 800 explodes off the coast of Long Island shortly after take-off, killing all 230 passengers and crew.

            Prince Charles and Princess Diana are divorced.

            President Clinton is re-elected in a landslide victory.

            Madeleine Albright is the first woman appointed to serve as Secretary of State.

1997    In January the West Coast is battered by winter storms.  In March thunderstorms and tornadoes ravage Tennessee, Arkansas, Kentucky, Indiana, Mississippi, Ohio and West Virginia.  In April a spring storm dumps 2 1/2 feet of snow on Boston…Blame it on El Nino.

            Tiger Woods, a 21-year-old rookie, wins the Masters Golf Tournament.

            Timothy McVeigh is convicted of the Oklahoma City bombing and sentenced to death.

            The American spacecraft Pathfinder lands on Mars; the rover Sojourner rolls out and sends back pictures of its exploration of the Martian surface.

            Princess Diana dies in a car crash in Paris.  Millions line the route between Kensington Palace and Westminster Abbey for her funeral.  An estimated 1 billion watch the funeral on TV.

            Mother Teresa dies.  Crowds are barred from her funeral “to ensure the safety of visiting dignitaries.”

1998    The Good Friday agreement between Unionists and Nationalists in Northern Ireland is a major step towards ending 30 years of sectarian violence.

            Mark McGwire and Sammy Sousa break Roger Maris’ homerun record; McGwire wins the race with 70 homeruns.

            36 years after his historic orbital flight, John Glenn goes back into space aboard the shuttle.

            The year of Bill Clinton, Monica Lewinsky, Linda Tripp and Ken Starr ends with the president impeached by the House of Representaives for lying under oath about a sexual relationship with Monica Lewinsky.

1999    President Clinton is acquitted; Monica goes on tour with her book, Monica’s Story.

            Motivated by the historical memory of defeat at the hands of the Turks in 1389, and by 600 years of real and perceived injustices, nationalist Serbians under Yugoslav president Slobodan Milosevic, engage in a campaign of ethnic cleansing against Albanian Muslims in the province of Kosovo. The U.S. military joins NATO forces and  bombs Belgrade.  The allied troops are unable to weaken Serb resolve, to stop the killing, or to reverse the exodus of more than 500,000 Kosovar refugees.

            The Class of 1974 returns to Mount Holyoke College to celebrate its 25th Reunion.


Timeline: Life at Mount Holyoke, 1970-74

By Ellie McGrath 

The following timeline was compiled by Ellie McGrath, former editor-in-chief of Choragos, with the assistance of Rebecca Mazur, current editor-in-chief of the Mount Holyoke News.  All information was taken from the college newspapers published from the fall of 1970 through spring of 1974; with any luck it is fairly accurate.  Apologies to anyone whose favorite college event went unreported.

 

1970

Freshman Year

Fall Semester

 

William McFeeley comes to MHC from Yale to be Dean of Faculty. 

Hampshire College opens with 250 students. 

Assistant Attorney General William Ruckelshaus speaks at Chapin Auditorium in October; Hampshire students perform anti-war guerilla theatre. 

Choragos runs a story called “Abortion shopping” and includes a resource guide (two years before the Roe v. Wade makes abortion legal in America). 

A poll conducted by Professor Victoria Schuck finds that 50% of the students and 19% of the faculty believe that Nixon is doing a “poor” job with the Vietnam War. Students indicate that Edmund Muskie would be their favorite candidate in 1972; the faculty favor Nixon (and 3% of faculty prefer Ronald Reagan). 

The Rev. Robert Drinan, the Democratic nominee for the gerrymandered Third Congressional District in Massachusetts, speaks at Mount Holyoke in October on "Issues and Student Involvement in Politics." 

The Lab Theatre presents Thornton Wilder’s The Skin of Our Teeth. 

The November trustee meeting sparks debate about why the board even exists. President David B. Truman writes an editorial in Choragos exploring the elimination of the board of trustees, and concludes that a functional equivalent might be even more objectionable.   

Mount Holyoke forms a Women's Liberation Group, a birth control and abortion information center.  

Choragos reports that average Mount Holyoke student earnings in the summer of 1970 were $670. Campus jobs pay an average of $1.60 an hour. 

The “fact finding report on coeducation” is released and presents lists of “pros” and “cons.” One of the perceived advantages of going co-ed: “Presence of men in classroom adds to intellectual and cultural diversity and stimulation.” A perceived disadvantage: “Only in a separate environment free from their traditional sex role, can some women develop their capabilities to the fullest extent and thus be prepared for the 'real' world.” 

The Lab Theatre presents August Strindberg’s The Stronger and Miss Julie.  

Exams are held after Christmas for the last time. 

1971

Freshman Year

Spring Semester 

Walter E. Stuart is named the first chair of Mount Holyoke's Black Studies Department.  

The faculty passes a 4-1-4 academic calendar, but the issue of what the January term will be used for remains unclear. 

Faculty votes to end the English L101 (a writing course) requirement for freshmen. 

Several alleged incidents of cheating during the fall exam period make the status of self-scheduled exams precarious. 

The U.S. invades Laos in February, spawning protests nationwide. Students at Columbia stage massive demonstrations, and the National Student Association calls for a series of prolonged anti-imperialist campaigns.  The Choragos editorial board asserts that there is “certainly a great deal to protest” but cautions students against demonstrations, which could splinter the anti-war movement if people are forced to choose between their academics and their political beliefs. 

The Lab Theatre presents I, Woman, a reader’s theatre production. 

The New York Times reports in March that the political trend at women's colleges is to remain single-sex.  As one of the last of the Seven Sisters to make a definite decision, Mount Holyoke is still uncertain as to which direction it will go. Choragos editorializes: “For as long as Mount Holyoke continues to be an institution for the education of women, discussion among students about becoming coeducational will probably never cease.” 

The Lab Theatre presents William Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream. 

1971

Sophomore Year

Fall Semester 

Jean E. Ciruti becomes Dean of Studies and takes action to improve the advising system. 

College becomes wired with the "centrex" system for telephones.  Forty-nine students have phones in their rooms, but off-campus calls can not be received after midnight.   

The Mount Holyoke Glee Club tours Detroit with the Williams College Glee Club. 

A third of the junior class has left for the semester; Choragos reports a steady increase in students taking leaves. Students returning from junior year at co-ed colleges cite the value of coeducation. 

25 Mount Holyoke students participate in a demonstration for prison reform at Danbury Federal Prison. 

There is a deafening roar from B-52 bombers taking off from Westover Air Force Base. Choragos asks a Westover spokesman, “Do they carry warheads?” A Sgt. Sbraga says, “Unequivocably, NO!” 

The MHC Conservation Action Committee begins recycling bottles and newspapers from dorms. 

A computer that MHC shares with Amherst generates course registrations for the first time. 

Faculty meetings, in which coeducation and the grading system are debated, take place behind closed doors. Choragos demands that student representatives be allowed to attend. 

The debate on coeducation becomes the central issue on campus in October. The Majority Report of the Faculty Conference Committee declares that Mount Holyoke should remain a women’s college and maintain the diversity of choice in American higher education. Going coed, says the report, would “surrender our relatively strong position as a superior college for women in order to become a run-of-the-mill and possibly mediocre coeducational institution.” The study also cites the costs and the possibility of lower admissions standards as obstacles to coeducation. The report concludes that MHC should “stay a distinctive college with a distinctive purpose.” A number of faculty, however, support coeducation. 

A capacity crowd fills an all-college meeting on coeducation in Gamble Auditorium. The most vocal students want MHC to remain a women’s college. 

The 13-point grading system and bell curve come under attack as critics claim they put Mount Holyoke students at a disadvantage when applying to grad schools. 

The Lab Theatre presents Luigi Pirandello’s Right You Are If You Think You Are

Livingston Taylor performs at Chapin wearing a Mount Holyoke t-shirt. 

Sister Elizabeth McAlister, one of the Harrisburg Eight, speaks at Chapin and tells students: “The war is not de-escalating.” 

The new art building opens in November.

The voting age is lowered to 18. 

The trustees unanimously decide that Mount Holyoke will remain a college for women at their November meeting. Following the decision, Choragos publishes an issue entitled “What Do We Mean, a Women’s College?” Articles discuss the possibilities of continuing education for older women, a day care center for MHC faculty and staff, January internships with alumnae who combine career and family, a women’s studies major. 

Harvard’s Matina Horner publishes a study of women’s fear of success. 

The Lab Theatre presents Damon Runyon’s Guys and Dolls

Dartmouth becomes the last Ivy League college to go coed. 

The J. Geils band performs for Winter Weekend. 

The student advisor program starts on a trial basis. 

1972

Sophomore Year

Spring Semester 

The first January term is deemed a success, despite the way it compressed the fall semester. 

Lower Lake freezes and students go skating. 

Mezzo-soprano Frederica von Stade performs at MHC. 

Mount Holyoke organizes a chapter of Ralph Nader’s Western Massachusetts Public Interest Research Group (WMPIRG). 

Congressmen Allard Lowenstein, who spearheaded the “Dump Johnson” movement in ‘68, speaks at North Rocky. 

A Choragos reviewer criticizes the first issues of Ms. for its “traditional harangues and rhetoric of the Downtrodden.” 

The college decides to allow students who receive financial aid to take part in the 12-College Exchange for the first time. 

A group of MHC students goes to New Hampshire to work for George McGovern the weekend before the March presidential primary. 

Student representatives are allowed to observe faculty meetings for the first time. 

A Wall St. Journal headline warns: “As Class of ‘72 Nears Marketplace, Class of ‘71 is Still Pounding the Streets.” MHC students worry about the job market, while the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission begins challenging labor laws nationwide that discriminate against women. 

A Massachusetts state law that prohibits doctors from issuing birth control to unmarried women is overturned in March. The MHC infirmary says it will not dispense birth control but will continue to refer students to area gynecologists. 

The viability of the honor code is once again questioned as reserve books are taken from the library and stolen from the bookstore. 

The student-run Action on Academic Issues publishes Prerogative, an evaluation of courses and professors based on 4,000 student questionnaires. Some untenured faculty find the criticism potentially damaging to their careers. 

The U.S. resumes bombing in Vietnam in April. As bombers depart from Westover, students block the road leading into the base and some are arrested. Teach-ins are held on campus. 

The Lab Theatre presents Brendan Behan’s The Hostage

Choragos reports the results of a national study that finds that more than half of Americans under 21 have smoked pot. Massachusetts laws against marijuana are eased. 

The U.S. blockade of Vietnamese ports leads to more student protest. 

1972

Junior Year

Fall Semester 

Catering Management Inc. takes over MHC food service, and the College Services Corporation takes over operation of the college bookstore. Faculty and students were not consulted. 

A new 3-point grading system—excellent, good, pass—goes into effect as well as Course 399, “Demonstration of Competence in the Major,” also known as “comps.” 

A Holyoke student, Katie Hanna ‘75, reports on being the second-youngest delegate to the Democratic National Convention. 

“The Ebony Quill,” by Naomi Iris Bryant, debuts in Choragos to explore the African-American experience and point of view. 

As Vice-President Spiro Agnew continues to attack the press, MHC holds a panel on freedom of the press with Nat Hentoff, Eileen Shanahan, William Shannon, and Earl Caldwell.

The Lab Theatre presents Euripides’ Medea

V.S. Pritchett speaks on autobiography. 

Edward Cox comes to campus on behalf of his father-in-law, Richard Nixon.  

A political science poll finds that 64% of students plan to vote for McGovern and 34% for Nixon. 

The Danforth Report discusses what it means to be a college for women. It recommends that the college and curriculum deal with problems of negative self-image among women, extend faculty mentoring, and consider establishing a women’s studies department, among other things. 

Students declare that the quantity and quality of food have declined under CMI; Abbey Hall boycotts dinner; CMI shakes up management. 

The student advisor program is extended to every dorm. 

The Lab Theatre presents Christopher Fry’s The Lady’s Not For Burning

The college embarks on a $40 million capital fund drive. 

1973

Junior Year

Spring Semester 

Amherst decides not to go coed despite the fact that nearly three-quarters of the student body support coeducation. 

On January 27, President Nixon announces the end of the Vietnam War.

The college finally agrees to hire a gynecologist, after a campus survey shows that 90% of the students feel they should have access to one. 

Choragos explores the pros and cons of tenure, after two female Smith professors sue the college over the denial of tenure. 

The Lab Theatre presents George Farquhar’s The Beaux’ Stratagem

John Sebastian performs at Chapin; so does Tom Rush. 

Gjertrud Schnackenberg ‘75 wins the Glascock Poetry Contest in its 50th year. Judges include Maxine Kumin and James Merrill; Archibald MacLeish does a reading.           

Five-college cooperation is considered a way to provide some of the advantages of coeducation to students at Holyoke, Smith and Amherst. 

Choragos reports that Barnard and Wellesley have the highest percentage of female faculty members (59%), followed by Mount Holyoke (50%). 

The first Black Alumnae Conference is organized by Beverly Scipio ‘74. 

Students vote to abolish Fathers’ Weekend; Parents’ Weekend will begin the following year. 

The Lab Theatre presents Jean Genet’s The Balcony.           

A survey on college admissions yield rates finds that MHC ranks below Bowdoin, Harvard, Williams, Amherst and Yale, but ahead of Wesleyan, Hampshire, Swarthmore, Wellesley and Smith. 

An editorial calls for an end to hitch-hiking after a Smith student is murdered. 

1973

Senior Year

Fall Semester 

Emily Wick, MA ’45, is named the new Dean of Faculty; Bill McFeeley returns to full-time teaching and writing a biography of Ulysses Grant (which will later win a Pulitzer Prize). 

Only 9 men come to MHC on the 12-college exchange. 

Both MHC and Amherst have an increase in students. Holyoke’s get rooms in dormitory basements; Amherst’s sleep in the old infirmary and Lord Jeffrey Inn. 

The Willits-Hallowell Center is to be built for faculty and alums. Choragos calls for a center for students and campus organizations. 

The campus tunes into the “Battle of the Sexes” in tennis to see Billie Jean King defeat Bobby Riggs. 

Alumna Dr. M. Elizabeth Tidball ’51 gives a lecture describing her five-year study: Graduates of women’s colleges are more likely to be achievers than women who graduate from coed schools. 

The Peer Counseling Program is set up to advise students on contraception, which they can get for the first time at the infirmary. 

The drinking age is lowered to 18 in Massachusetts; beer is sold at the Rathskeller. 

Mount Holyoke has trouble filling a vacancy in the Black Studies department; only 3 out of 250 MHC faculty members are African-American. 

Choragos uncovers a plan to turn the apple orchard next to Dickinson into a parking lot; campus reaction is negative and the parking lot is not built. 

Transportation improves and more Holyoke students (466) take courses in the five-college exchange. Most popular destination: Amherst. 

Jesse Colin Young plays to a full house in Chapin. 

A group of students organizes against development of condominiums on the Holyoke Range. 

The first issue of a new quarterly, the Valley Women’s Studies Journal, is published. 

Leonard Delonga has a one-man show. 

President Richard Nixon refuses a court order to produce Watergate documents, then forces the resignation of Attorney General Elliot Richardson and fires Special Prosecutor Archibald Cox. Students at MHC and Amherst rally to protest Nixon’s actions; Amherst historian Henry Steele Commager calls for impeachment.

Students concerned about the Middle East War set up a table in the post office for collecting funds for Israel.

The Mount Holyoke boycott committee supports the United Farm Workers and urges a boycott of lettuce, grapes, and Boones Farm wines.

The Lab Theatre presents Arthur Schnitzler’s La Ronde

“Women in the Life of a Day” conference is scheduled in November by Smith and Mount Holyoke to “bring women’s issues closer to home.” Alumnae panel “On Being a College for Women: Where Have We Been?” explores traditional and untraditional lives. 

The combined glee clubs of Mount Holyoke and Union Colleges perform Handel’s Messiah in Abbey Chapel. 

For the first time ever, two students become non-voting members on one of the college’s most important policy-making bodies, the Academic Policy Committee. 

The energy crisis hits hard. Speed limits are lowered to 50 m.p.h.; thermostats at MHC are set back to 68 degrees. 

The Amherst Student publishes a story called “Sleazing,” intended to be a satire on the need for coeducation. Many Holyoke and Smith women are offended by the putdowns, some “boycott” Amherst on the weekend, and Amherst President John Ward sends a letter of apology to Mount Holyoke students. 

Dizzy Gillespie comes to Mount Holyoke, not to play his trumpet but to talk about the Baha’i faith. 

After Thanksgiving, Choragos publishes a special issue called “Probing the Pressure Problem.” In a remarkable article, President David Truman writes that women come to MHC as overachievers but lack confidence, causing them to do everything on the syllabus out of “an unnerving sense of competition.” Chuck Trout refers to the Mount Holyoke College Pathology: reticence, dutiful devotion to work, loss of a sense of humor. Truman calls for more “constructive diversion.” 

The Lab Theatre presents Edgar Lee Masters’ Spoon River Anthology

1974

Senior Year

Spring Semester 

Mount Holyoke is the Valley’s center for Winter Term (1,500 MHC students participate); the college stays open despite the worldwide energy crisis. 

The Academic Policy Committee approves a program in the study of complex organizations. Students question the process by which the program was approved when they read an article in the New York Times that contradicts what they have been told by the administration.  Choragos editorializes that a "credibility gap" is developing between the students and the administration; President Truman calls an all-college meeting.

A proposal is made to end waitressed meals and change to cafeteria-style dining. 

In March, 475 streakers set the collegiate streaking record at the University of Massachusetts. When two students run naked from Mead Hall to Kendall, Mount Holyoke becomes the first women's college to produce streakers.

The Lab Theatre presents Francis Beaumont and John Fletcher’s The Knight of the Burning Pestle

Bella Abzug and Margaret Heckler are among the participants at MHC’s April “Women in Politics” weekend. 

Marilyn Z. Pryor, associate professor of biology, is appointed to replace Joan Ciruti in the three-year post of Dean of Studies.  

Staff disenchantment with working conditions leads kitchen workers to unionize. The maintenance staff also votes to unionize, against the College's wishes. 

English Professor Elizabeth Alden Green ’31  retires after nearly a half century at Mount Holyoke. 

In April an anonymous caller reports a bomb in Clapp Hall, causing morning classes to be cancelled and the building to be evacuated. 

The Lab Theatre presents Paul Zindel’s The Effect of Gamma Rays on Man-In-The-Moon Marigolds

MHC trustee Beryl Robichaud Collins  ‘40, senior vice-president of McGraw-Hill, speaks at graduation. Professors Tom Reese and Cathy Melhorn, and Ellie McGrath ’74, give baccalaureate addresses.



Questionnaire Results: Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow

By Lynn Johnson Dodge 

The majority of the class of 1974 is so busy that responding to questionnaires is not at the top of their ‘to do’ list. We received approximately 150 responses – the same return rate generated by our 20th reunion questionnaire.  At least we’re consistent. 

Marriage: What’s in a Name?

Currently 70% of us are married; half for more than 15 years.  We married in our late twenties (28 was the age of most brides) and 75% have married only once. Upon marriage, nearly half of us (43%) decided to change our name; but 45% still use their maiden name professionally.  The majority of those who are currently married or divorced have children.  Most of us (64%) give our children their father’s last name. Many who kept their birth name gave it to a child as a middle name.  Our oldest child is 38 and the youngest will be 6 months at Reunion.  Most of our children are in the wonderful pre-teen/teenage (11-19) years.  Thirty-one was given most often as the age we had our first child. In general, we raise our families in the suburbs and parent differently than our parents raised us. However, we name our parents most frequently as our heroes and heroines so we feel they did something right!  Over half of the other 37 heroes mentioned were women and come from all walks of life. We hope our children will avoid mistakes we made: not taking enough risks, having too little self-confidence, marrying for the wrong reasons and not having a career plan. 

Home is Where the Heart Is

Our families are very important to us – they are what we value most (a few of us valued our mind/sanity over the kids). Family photos and our homes are a close second. Given any additional amount of time, 40% indicated they would want to spend that extra time with their families. Many (47%) spend family time chauffeuring the kids and have some say in the choice of the radio station. 48% find it difficult to attend regular PTA/nursery school parent meetings because of busy schedules. The lack of regular attendance at PTA meetings does not seem to indicate a lack of commitment to education because 60% of us report they have college tuition saved for their children.  Of the 61% of us having jobs outside our homes, 66% travel overnight on business and 69% spend more than 10 days a year away from home. (Maybe this explains why only 19% of us indicated that we would like to spend any gift of additional time travelling.) 

Who Cares?

Women’s role in caring for a family has certainly changed from our childhood years. Only 27% do the housework, childcare, lawn all by ourselves; the rest of us have at least a cleaning person (43%) and a lawn service (35%). We feel that the division of labor at home is evenly divided – is this feeling a result of so many cleaning people being employed by us? Some said it bothers them that their children have little or no responsibility for chores.  As of now, the aging of America does not seem to be a heavy burden on our class. Currently 31% are responsible for parent care, even though half of us have lost at least one parent.  Over half of us have at least one pet (27% have two): cats rule (74%) and dogs drool (64%). We have a wide variety of pets: lobsters, chameleons, hermit crabs, and frogs as well as the more conventional gerbils, hamsters, and fish.  A few of us consider our pets to be our most valued possession.  

All Work, No Play?

Professionally, 71% work full-time and 30% work part-time or freelance. Only 2 people indicated they are retired.  No single professional field dominates our career choice.  Most are in Medicine (15%), Law (13%), Education (14%), Finance (13%), and Writing and Publishing (10%).  In the work place, 59% experienced sex discrimination; 36% have felt sexually harassed. Most of us have not hit a glass ceiling, but of the 24% that did, 29% went elsewhere or learned to live with the ceiling. One respondent reported that she didn’t think she’d hit glass, but admitted her head has been sore for quite a while!  Perhaps the glass ceiling was the reason 38 women (27%) chose to start their own businesses. Unlike most job seekers, only 27% of us have used the “old girl network” and some respondents were surprised to hear one exists. 

First Among Equals

We do have spunk- we are the First Woman to: receive a joint degree, be made a partner in a law firm or medical group, become the highest-level woman in finance, be hired by a firm, or to graduate from college and professional school in a family.  Interestingly only 15 % of us can say we stayed on our original career path; 17% didn’t have a career path and 29% veered completely off it. Despite the failure of Plan A to work out - or to exist at all for some of us - Plan B or C has led 69% of us to great satisfaction with our life at this point.  We haven’t stayed in the same job: 29% have had 2-3 jobs, 27% 4-5 and 18% 6-7. Some 20% have been fired from a job during their career.  Some have had multiple jobs for a single employer. Employers recognize that Mount Holyoke women have  “leadership skills” and have been “prepared to do and be many things.” Having these skills enables many of us to successfully create opportunities for ourselves, follow opportunities when they present themselves and give us the confidence to take on new tasks when asked. As a result, we have served in leadership positions in a variety of organizations: medical practices, universities, law firms, government and consulting firms.  Some 62% have worked for 20-25 years full-time since graduation. Another 26% have worked more than ten years since graduation. It seems very apparent that having a career is an integral part of many of our identities. Perhaps that explains why 55% of us have been chosen as mentors or have chosen to mentor in our communities and why 23% indicated a job change or loss was the biggest stress in their life right now. 

If You Want Something Done, Ask a Busy Person

Although we can’t decide whether our children are more altruistic than we are, we do act as good role models for them. We spend many volunteer hours in schools, libraries, community action groups, churches, town revitalization/development projects, scouting, regional/state professional organizations, neighborhood/community associations. Many serve on the boards of directors or as an officer: 39% have been a President/Chairperson, Vice-President, Treasurer, and Board member.  72% of us volunteer in some capacity for at least 4-10 hours per month; 20% of us volunteer more than 20 hours per month and 10% indicated they would spend their gift of additional time as a volunteer. 

Lifelong Learners

As can be expected, we take education seriously. We overwhelming cited the excellent education we received as the reason we were glad we attended Mount Holyoke.  Over half of us have Masters Degrees, with the most popular areas being Education, English and Science: 5 % have a Ph.D.  Other advanced degrees are: 14% in Business, 17% in Law, 12% in Medicine.  We learn for relaxation and fun too: 39% have taken a class in Art, Cooking, Fitness or Computer. The most common excuse for not taking a fun class was – NO TIME.  Since college, we have learned over 58 new skills or hobbies ranging from rollerblading to building her own home. The most popular post-graduate skills and hobbies are gardening, sports, parenting, cooking and computer skills.   

The Three R’s: Reading, Reading, Reading

Another indication of the value we place on education is evidenced by the amount we read: 21% read at least one book a month, 22% read 2-3 books, 25% read 4-6 books. Recently we have read over 250 books (See list on page xx). Cited most often as our favorite books are The Bible and Pride and Prejudice. Book Clubs include 17% as regular participants. Magazines and newspapers are also piled up in our homes: 35% receive some form of print media more than 5 days a week. Our favorite newspapers are The New York Times (whether daily or Sunday - 31% read it/ 64% of them consider it essential) and The Wall Street Journal (15% read it /77% of them consider it essential).  Half of us read our local newspaper; for 57% the local newspaper is essential reading. One third of us read Time or Newsweek and we subscribe to 72 different hobby/interest related magazines. Some consider the Mount Holyoke Quarterly essential reading. When we add the 50 different types of professional journals many of us must read, no one should be surprised we have no free time. 

Who Are We Now?

Are we more assertive than we were in college?  72% of us think so; 24% feel their assertiveness is about the same.  Interestingly only 48% feel they are just a little different from the person they were in college while 43% feel they are significantly different. (This is really surprising considering how many of us have children). Only 8% feel they have not changed at all.  Another interesting dichotomy is found in our feelings and actions involving religion: 57% indicated they do not attend church any more regularly than they did in college, yet surprisingly we feel more religious (43%) now. 

Back to the Future
 

We aren’t very vain: 60% wear reading glasses and 59% don’t color their gray hair. We seem to be healthy – 70% of us have not experienced a major illness or injury since college.  The prospect of menopause doesn’t seem to scare or delight us - instead it is viewed as a natural progression and unavoidable. All of these trends would seem to explain why the majority of us feel we are at our ideal age now or will reach it in the future.

Move Over Richard Simmons

Some indicated health was their most valued possession. Not surprisingly, 66% have made diet changes to lower their intake of fat, red meat and sugar, while
increasing the amount of vegetables and grains in our meals. Although one respondent asked “Does Lean Cuisine qualify?” 59% of us cook 5-7 meals a week.  We take vitamins, but only 43% have increased the amount of calcium in their diet. Even though we may not indulge often in our favorite foods, we still love ice cream, chocolate, cheese, seafood, pasta and dessert. The consensus seems to be our class has gained more weight than it has lost.  Despite our aversion to exercise in college (54% negative response to 40% positive response) we participate more regularly in exercise now. 61% exercise over 3 times per week and 26% of that fit 61% exercise almost every day.  Maybe this explains why 20% of us responded that we love to wear casual clothes - jeans, sweats, and shorts! Our most popular forms of exercise are aerobics, walking and an organized sport. Skiing, swimming, tennis and hiking are the most popular sports in which we participate. We need 6-7 hours of sleep (57%) although 36% need more than 9.  We don’t smoke; but 76% of us drink alcohol.  Is that the result of stress related to our jobs, being a parent, in some cases both?

 

We Keep on Truckin’

Our biggest causes of stress are: parenting, time management (juggling work and family schedules/demands), job responsibilities, deadlines, money worries (tuition costs, job loss), concerns about aging parents, and finding time for individual pursuits. 59% have felt the desire, at one time or another, to run away from our responsibilities. Many respondents asked,  “Who hasn’t?”  Won’t they be surprised when they find out that 32% have never felt the need to run?  To cope with tough times or issues, many of us (53%) have undergone therapy; overwhelmingly (95%), we found it helpful. Other coping mechanisms that help us are: religious beliefs, family, friends, a spouse/significant other, and exercise. Another popular source of strength has been adopting a philosophy based on “One day at a time/Tomorrow will come.” Typically, a few said that their belief in themselves always got them through.  Many feel this is a testament to their Mount Holyoke education.  One alumna wrote “My ability to problem-solve, to be resourceful, to not accept NO as an answer have been essential to my success.  I believe MHC and the women’s college environment were instrumental in these areas.” 

Time and Time Again

The gift of time was precious to all of us - a recurring theme. A desire for time to pursue personal interests, exercise, create art or music, and take better care of ourselves reverberated in many areas. We long for time alone and time with a significant other, spouse or kids.  However, if any friend of a member of the Class of 1974 wants to give us our favorite gift item, buy us jewelry! 

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

In our leisure time, we like to see movies, socialize and take vacations. We go to first-run movies: 49 % see at least one movie a month and 38% see two. When we socialize it tends to be with work colleagues or people with whom we share hobbies.  We value old friends: 62 % continue to socialize their Mount Holyoke buddies and 15% cited enduring friendships as one reason they were glad to have gone to Mount Holyoke.  Each month 27% of us spend 3 - 5 hours with friends; 17% spend more than 20 hours. We trust our friends: 57% share intimate secrets and 48% find our current friendships as satisfying as those we had in college. We like to travel: 48% take at least 2 - 3 vacations a year.  Europe was the favorite vacation destination; Italy was the country specifically mentioned most often. (No wonder pasta is one of our favorite foods!)  

Politically Correct

Politically, 57% identify with a mainstream political party: 40% Democrat and 17% Republican. Independents account for 36%.  Our political views have not changed much: 63% retain their college political views. We’re nonpartisan on impeachment: 32% felt that Clinton should be impeached. Our class did not translate its’ political identification into a desire to run for elected office. Our earliest political memories are those of Camelot: the 1960 presidential campaign, Kennedy’s inauguration and assassination.  

The More Things Change…
 

How we deal with change brings a mixture of responses: 41% of us welcome change with open arms while 28% view change with reservations. Another 21 % are cautious types who need time to analyze the nature of the nature of the change before incorporating it. Two technological innovations we heartily endorse are computers and microwave ovens. We consider the microwave indispensable (one asked “does microwaving a frozen dinner constitute cooking?” and another admitted, “I would starve with out it”).  Other beloved appliances are the washing machine and refrigerator. 

WWW. CLASS of 74.COM

Considering that less than half of us welcome change with open arms, we have certainly welcomed the Age of the Computer.  Despite the fact that 73% of our class did not use a computer at Mount Holyoke (some indicated they didn’t know there were computers on campus), we certainly have them now. We buy PCs (11% have more than 3 PCs in their house) and we use them. Technical skills are necessary in 69% of our jobs. We use e-mail equally for business and personal use: 60% use e-mail all the time and 29% use it occasionally. Interestingly, only 30% use Internet chat rooms and only 24% bank electronically.  Most of us feel that computers have made us more productive; 21% say they would be lost without them. Considering 50% of us say they can never fix their computer and another 41% indicate that they sometimes can fix their computer, it would seem likely the computer repair people love to see us.  This could represent an opportunity for one of our class entrepreneurs! 

Oh, Mount Holyoke We Pay Thee Devotion

Our strong loyalty to Mount Holyoke continues: 44% gave an unqualified YES when asked if they would send a daughter to Mount Holyoke, 22% said they probably would.  With the wisdom of a 25-year perspective, 63% view the decision to attend Mount Holyoke as the right one.  We feel Mount Holyoke’s excellent education and high standards built character, increased our self-confidence and helped us to think independently. 

“I’ve been academically prepared for all the challenges I’ve come across,” wrote one classmate. Another cited the importance of being able “to try things out and see the possibilities…” in a supportive environment. Mount Holyoke provided “…a small town family with a world of opportunities…” 

Many indicated the single-sex environment continues to be a significant reason for their current success. They described the college environment as one filled with “interesting, self-sufficient women…” who had a “…durability and resilience.”   A place where “…women ruled their destiny” and “we could take pride in being a woman.” One classmate wrote,  “In class I found it easy to ask questions.  I wasn’t worried about what a boy would think.  I learned to be more independent and assertive and that anything was possible.  I developed self-confidence.”

25th REUNION PARADE SIGNS 

STILL ROAD TRIPPING -

47% CHAUFFEUR THE KIDS

40% TRAVEL ON BUSINESS 

BABIES TO MIDDLE AGE -

OUR CHILDREN'S AGES:

6 MONTHS TO 38 YEARS! 

60% HAVE COLLEGE SAVINGS -

MIGHT THAT BE MHC?

66% WOULD SEND A DAUGHTER 

ALL IS NOT VANITY -

60% USE READING GLASSES

60% LEAVE THE GRAY ALONE 

YOU'RE STILL THE ONE -

62% KEEP IN TOUCH

WITH MHC FRIENDS 

WE'VE GOT MAIL -

89% USE E-MAIL 

AGE HAS CHANGED OUR DIETS

BUT WE STILL LOVE

ICE CREAM AND CHOCOLATE! 

OUR BIGGEST STRESS?

THERE'S NO TIME

TO BE STRESSED 


The Zeitgeist and Us

By

Ellie McGrath 

            When we graduated from Mount Holyoke, we were at ground zero for so many social changes. A new wave of feminism was catapulting us into graduate schools and professions that had been virtual boys’ clubs. Civil rights activists were championing equal opportunity for all. Americans were becoming aware of the need to protect our environment and natural resources. In the aftermath of the Vietnam War and Watergate, voters were beginning to believe that a woman belonged in the House - and the Senate. Many of us left Holyoke searching for equity: in marriages, in schools, in careers, in our world. 

            Now that 25 years have passed, I wanted to find out how we have fared in our personal quests. Although only 15 percent of those who answered the questionnaire indicate they have stayed on their original career paths, 69 percent say they are satisfied with their lives. Whether we have become corporate players or PTA presidents, ski bums or legal scholars, it appears that we place more importance on living a life of meaning than on defining success by a single narrow standard. 

            Those of you who responded to the “bonus” question have helped put into perspective how the issues of the ‘70’s have influenced our lives. This essay will touch upon some of the issues that have resonated for us in the past 25 years. While it could not possibly represent everyone, I hope it touches the pulse of our lives and times.           

Great Expectations

            “Feminism was invigorating when we graduated from Holyoke,” says Holly Mak. “It was motivating.” Most of us believed we could go anywhere and do anything. “We were able to consider alternatives for careers, marriage, social responsibility and lifestyle that were, at times, mindboggling in number,” says Nell Whiting, a vice-president for Merrill Lynch in Princeton, New Jersey. “Years ago, certain choices simply did not exist, such as keeping one’s own name after marriage, having a career outside the home, not having children.” 

            For many of us, the first big step after college was into the job market. We were part of the first wave of women who entered the workplace in significant numbers - with great expectations and an optimism that seems almost sweet in hindsight. A few of us were pioneers, the first woman this or the first woman that. But most of us who pursued careers became part of a new critical mass that opened doors that had been shut to women. We were determined to make it in a man’s world - and, better yet, change it. 

            Janet Hayes, who is now a vice-president in international marketing for Merrill Lynch in New York City, remembers that new federal policies were helpful to women back in 1974. “My first job in a bank was the result of a need for diversity in the management ranks,” she recalls. “Clearly, I would not have started in this particular management training program without the times a-changing. Would I have found as good a job without the EEO decree? Maybe. Would I have been paid the same as the men in the job? Perhaps not.”   

            Still, the world at large was not exactly ready to receive women like us. Beverly Scipio remembers 1970 as “the year that most campuses had entering classes that were the most diverse ever.” After graduation, she recalls: “Little did I know about the realities of the politically charged, often hostile, work world and the challenges that awaited me as a well-educated Black woman. Too often my gender and ethnicity were greater influences, in that they were received negatively, rather than my credentials and ability and willingness to perform tasks. Needless to say, many of my experiences have been humbling, but adversity can be a tremendous motivator that can produce positive outcomes.” 

            Coming from a women’s college, where we were accustomed to a level playing field, some of us found the world’s tilt a little disorienting. Janet Wilkov Twomey reports: “In the 1980’s with my Columbia MBA and a job in commercial lending, I felt like I was part of the first generation that could really capitalize on the ‘women’s liberation’ movement. As long as I worked in New York City, I was part of a critical mass of women in a workplace that had become more accepting of professional women, at least on the surface.”

            All that changed when she and her husband relocated to central Florida in 1984. Janet joined a large Florida bank and after three years became a vice-president and department manager, the only women at that level in the organization. “I thought I was in a time warp,” she recalls. “Out in the field it was worse - many of the corporate customers and prospects had never dealt with a ‘lady banker.’ Most would tolerate it, but occasionally I would have to send a male colleague in my place for the sake of the bank.” 

            A lot of us were playing games mother - or father - never taught us. “I was so imbued with the assumption that I could accomplish anything,” says Gail Gustin Kaneb, “that when I did encounter discrimination, I assumed it was only a lack of understanding on the other person’s part.” When IBM hired her right after graduation as the first female new accounts sales representative in the Boston office, she was given the worst territory because “they didn’t know how the customers would react.” Gail tried to turn being a female computer sales representative into an advantage. “Once I got in, I knew I had to do a better job than any man to gain credibility,” says Gail. “But once credibility was established, it was an equal playing field. That may not have been completely true. But because I believed it was the case, I had the confidence to act that way, and it became true.” 

            Ah, yes, we were optimistic - and we had energy. After graduation, I had gone to work at Time Magazine, believing, hey, why can’t a woman be the editor someday? At Time, women had traditionally served as researchers, as did I when I was hired. Within two years, I became a writer, and around 1980 I was the only woman writer in the magazine’s high-profile Nation section. I wasn’t getting great assignments, but I was hanging in because this was the most important part of an influential magazine. I thought I could help women be portrayed fairly in stories and speak up when they should be included in major reports, such as a special issue on leadership. 

            I’ll never forget, though, the day I asked the editor for better assignments. He looked at me and said, “I really don’t believe women should be writing in the Nation section.” Stunned, I asked why. “It’s too grueling,” he replied. Well, yes, we wrote under great pressure at the end of every week, often staying up most of the night on Fridays. But I was incredulous because this man knew that I ran marathons. Stamina was not an issue for me; it was more so for some of the hard-drinking male writers, whose lives were about as healthy as John Belushi’s. Another editor later explained to me late one closing night, “The reason men like me have a problem with women like you is...” I finally realized that in this environment at this time in history with these particular people I would probably remain an alien, an editorial E.T., so I decided I had to get out. I asked for my own section in the less-harried back of the book, where I wrote about education. After ten years at the magazine, I quit, in part because I realized that I would never get the chance become an editor, a job at which I later succeeded - and enjoyed - elsewhere. 

            The workforce has changed dramatically in the past 25 years, some of it for the good, some of it for the not-so-good. As Janet Hayes observes: “The times gave me the terminology necessary to help me identify and confront the issues of the day. I might not have been as aware of discrimination in the workplace without the lexicon of ‘equal pay for equal work,’ ‘mommy track,’ and ‘glass ceiling.’ Resolving the issues has not always been possible, but identifying and not accepting them has been. The times made the lifestyles of single and working women or married women with no kids - remember DINK? - more acceptable by labeling it and creating it as a norm. While we may have watched films of Katharine Hepburn playing a fashionable working lady, it was Mary Tyler Moore who clearly made it okay to move to a city and try it ourselves - preferably with a friend like Rhoda.” 

Having It All

            Now that was a concept! As the media projected images of a woman holding a briefcase in one hand and a small child in the other, we entered the Superwoman era. A majority of us have married and had children - and a majority of us work full-time. We are the cohort who inspired Dressed for Success, The Second Shift, The Time Bind, and the titles of many other best-selling books. As the first generation of women to have reproductive freedom, many of us delayed childbearing until our thirties (the average age at which we had our first child is 31), and some of us have had to cope with infertility. As we’ve tried to juggle responsibilities, the idea of having it all has sometimes felt like a slap in the face. 

            “I would like to blame the times on the desire to have it all,” says Janet Hayes. “Unfortunately, that is too easy. Most of us who went to Mount Holyoke had high personal goals and expectations of ourselves. It did not in many cases occur to us that we could not have it all. The surprise was - and always has been - that life cannot be totally planned. Choices and compromises have to be made and disappointments accepted.”

            What has helped many of us has been our ability to forge partnerships that are very different from those of our mothers. The questionnaires indicate that dividing domestic duties, for instance, is not a particularly divisive issue for us. As women have changed, so have men. Gail Gustin Kaneb notes, “I take more responsibility for the kids, but I’m usually happy to do that. I cook more often than Tom does, but he usually washes the dishes.”           

            Indeed, many of us have husbands who have turned out to be our biggest cheerleaders and supporters. Gail, who has run a family oil business with her husband in Cornwall, Ontario, says they have complementary strengths. “I help him with people and personal development issues,” says Gail. “He sees the next strategic step in whatever I am doing.” It is not unusual today for husbands to be more attuned to sharing professional and personal concerns. Carol Stokinger, who has been an assistant district attorney in New York City for the past 20 years, graduated in the same class from Columbia Law School as her husband. She observes: “If I have to be in court and my son is sick and needs to stay home from school, there’s simply no issue. My husband will stay home or take him into his firm for part of the day.” 

            Many of us still struggle, though, with how much we should do and how we should do it. “With the feeling that you can do anything, the flip side is you should do everything,” says Barbara Lemperly Grant, who has a four-year-old daughter and manages the Chanel Boutique in Boston. “The expectation level had a big impact on me. We were supposed to be the best at everything: be the smartest, have the best jobs, wonderful husbands, perfect children.” What many of us have discovered is that few people can do it all, all at once. “You do it at different stages,” says Barbara, “reinventing yourself as you go along. At this stage of my life, when I come the closest, I still struggle with self-acceptance and the feeling that I’m not doing enough. That’s one thing many of us share, and it’s the reason we still struggle.”     

Composing a Life

            As we all know by now, life is full of surprises. “Women today, trying to compose lives that will honor all their commitments and still express all their potential with a certain unitary grace, do not have an easy task,” writes Mary Catherine Bateson, the anthropologist-daughter of Margaret Mead, in her book, Composing a Life. “It is important, however, to see that, in finding a personal path among the discontinuities and moral ambiguities they face, they are performing a creative synthesis with a value that goes beyond the merely personal....Individual improvisations can sometimes be shared as models of possibility for men and women in the future.” 

            Very few of us have approached life with a single focus. As Anne Dowd Brady writes, “In many ways my life has taken turns that make me feel more progressive in my thinking now than I could have imagined.” After Anne left Mount Holyoke, she married and went to graduate school at Rhode Island School of Design. Just after celebrating her fifth wedding anniversary, she and her husband discovered that their one-year-old daughter had a little-known, neuro-muscular disease called spinal muscular atrophy. “The positive spin, as anyone who has faced major life trauma will tell, was that we changed our point of view on life,” says Anne. “We dedicated ourselves to living more in the moment and less in the future. This was not a very contemporary view among our peers, who were busy climbing in their twenties and thirties, but it worked for us.” 

            Anne continued her career as an art educator in Philadelphia, and her husband, Tom, continued to paint. They had another girl, born five years later, then a boy, two years after that. “I had just returned to teaching full-time, we had bought our first house, and life was pretty grand for two hippie-artist types,” recalls Anne. “But it became clear within his first six months that James also had SMA, and like his older sister would have health problems and use a wheelchair.” Anne’s job became of great importance, because it carried health insurance. “Again our life shifted,” Anne explains, “and Tom became primary parent to a child who needed major assistance.”             

Bailing and Balancing

            Our generation has gone to great lengths to try to strike a reasonable balance between the professional and the personal. In doing so, we have focussed attention on what is now called work/family issues. At the time when many women our age needed more flexibility to spend time with their families, employers were downsizing and demanding longer hours. While a 35- to 40-hour week was considered full-time in 1974, it’s practically part-time today. Fortune magazine ran a cover story in 1995 called “Executive Women Confront Midlife Crisis” that chronicled an exodus by women out of high-stress corporate jobs. While the corporations assumed that women were going home to take care of children, the reality was that many of them were using their professional skills to start their own businesses. “So many women have started their own firms that as a group they now employ about three-quarters as many workers in the U.S. as the Fortune 500,” reported the story. 

            Judging from questionnaire responses, we’ve been on the cutting edge of this development, too. Nearly one third of us have started our own businesses or ply our professional skills independently. Starting a business of our own, I suspect, is not just a solution to conflicting demands in our lives or a way to fulfill ambitions, but also a verdict on workaholic professional cultures.           

             Some of us have just said “no” to jobs that marginalize personal life. “I really love the freedom of working for myself,” says Holly Mak, formerly a senior vice-president of the Abu Dhabi International Bank in Washington, D.C. Today she has a consulting business in which she averages 30 hours of work a week, leaving her free to spend more time with her two children, who are 14 and 12. “I could easily have more work,” she says, “but I don’t want to be working every minute.” 

            Gail Gustin Kaneb started her own consulting business last year to help companies develop leadership abilities in their employees. Cathy Trauernicht, who lives in Bethesda, Maryland and ended a career in banking to raise her two children, is contemplating starting her own business, as well. “I would hope more of us wouldn’t think twice about changing a field, starting a business, or venturing into something new,” she says.

 A Better World         

            “Where have all the protesters gone?” asks Carol Joyce. “I worry that most of us who were politically active in the early ‘70’s with blazing hearts and strong commitment to making a better world have settled into a life of acceptance and fear of rocking the boat, at home, at work, and at the polls. Why are so many wonderful people unable to mobilize? I have accomplished less than I wanted so far, but I truly strive to make an impact on the world each day.” 

            Carol, a licensed social worker, has served as a juvenile probation officer, counseled adolescent sex offenders and developed therapeutic community programs for mentally retarded sex offenders. A co-founder of North East Planning Consultants in Western Massachusetts, Carol continues to work with people with cognitive disabilities. “I have continued to buck the system, expose injustice and confront unfairness and corruption,” she says. “This has earned me the deserved reputation as a change agent, ‘mover and shaker,’ passionate advocate, crazy radical, or loose canon, depending on which side of the issues you stand. I have forsaken pleasing everyone to become one of those strong women you either love or hate - but rarely ignore.”

             While we may try to think globally, most of us have found opportunities to act locally. Nearly three-quarters of our class do volunteer work, despite careers or children - or both. And that work has been defining for some of us.

            Beverly Scipio says she went to Mount Holyoke with a mission: “To bring something back to a community that needed skills.” Armed with a graduate degree in public administration and a masters in Biblical Studies and Black Church Studies, she maintains: “I have not lost sight of improving the human condition. My purpose has been to serve as a voice for the voiceless.” As an urban and regional planner in Cleveland, Ohio, Beverly was recently project manager for an EPA initiative to improve environmental conditions in a low-income neighborhood. She is currently president of Zonta, a world-wide organization of businesswomen, that helps women without educational opportunities. And as a trustee of a Cleveland nursing home that was started for the Black aged and indigent, Beverly is trying to maintain health-care delivery for inner-city residents. 

            In trying to do good, we have also served as role models for others. “I have led an ordinary life of motherhood, community activism and work,” says Ellie Degan Pancoe, “but have tried to imbue it with that ‘you can do anything’ idealism that MHC instilled in us.” After serving for many years on the board of a reform synagogue in Bangor, Maine, Ellie has become president of the congregation. “This made me the first woman to hold this position, and, as far as I know, the first woman ever to be president of a synagogue in Maine,” she says. “I know that my work inspired other women to take on positions of increasing responsibility. It has also led to an invitation to be on a previously all-male foundation board. So, I may not be shaking up the world, but I am making some small contribution locally.”           

            Anne Dowd Brady sees herself as an agent for change in education by working to keep the arts part of the curriculum and helping parents of special needs children navigate the bureaucracy of school systems. “I will continue to advocate better health care options for all people,” says Anne, “and for an economy that doesn’t rely on two wage earners for the family to survive and prosper, so that someone can raise the children.” 

            For Pat Showalter, volunteer work has led to opportunities that eluded her in her professional life. She earned an engineering degree from the University of California at Berkeley when women were still unwelcome tokens. “I entered the U.S. Geological Survey’s California District as the highest-level technical female,” she says, “and left eight years later as the highest technical female, even though I never got a promotion.” After her son was born, Pat spent ten years raising her two children and doing a great deal of volunteer work. 

            That volunteer work provided the experience that led to her appointment to Mountain View’s planning commission. In California, Pat says, planning commissions are really the front line of defense of the environment. “I always wanted to be in environmental policy,” she says. “Now in my current position as director of San Francisquito Creek CRMP and as a Mountain View planning commissioner, I can do that. I am a person to be reckoned with. When the city managers came to me for a solution for a water problem, I told them what to do, and they are spending $500,000 to do it. In terms of salary, I may not be considered successful, but in terms of influence I think I am.” 

Legacy           

            While change seems to come slowly while you’re living it, we can look around us and see a very different country from the one we grew up in. More women than men now get college degrees. In 1970, only 14 percent of economists were women; in 1990, 44 percent were. Only 6 percent of lawyers and judges and 3 percent of industrial engineers were women in 1970; those numbers had increased to 27 percent in two decades. I personally get great pleasure in knowing that Time’s Nation editor is not only a woman, but also a woman who graduated from Mount Holyoke several years after we did. Still, even though the workforce is nearly half female, 98 percent of the senior-level managers of Fortune 500 companies are men. Most of us would like to see more progress. We would like to be represented by more women in Congress. We wonder if we’ll live to see a woman become president. But I think we can all feel some satisfaction in how women have taken on more diverse roles in American society in the past 25 years. 

            “My daughter is six, and I am proud that I may have helped open some doors for her,” says Janet Wilkov Twomey, who now lives in Rochester Hills, Michigan and cares full-time for her two young children. “I had professional opportunities that my mother never had, and my daughter will have opportunities that were unavailable to me. The biggest positive change for women in the last several decades has been that they now have choices. That is what makes me optimistic about the future.” 

            Still, those of us who are raising children, particularly girls, are both heartened by the new opportunities for them and dismayed by certain trends. “I find the culture in so many ways not respectful of the potential of human beings,” says Cathy Trauernicht. “I see commercials for so-called ‘family’ shows with girls dressed in tank tops and bare midriffs. Girls are so much more exposed than boys, and I try to fight that. So in our house, we just don’t watch television and try to uphold certain standards of dress and language.”

             We want our children to have lives that are not limited by society - or by ideology. “As the mother of two daughters,” says Anne Dowd Brady,  “I have to support and inform their ideas on feminism. I watch them grow and know they have been strengthened by the women of my generation. I want them to know that feminism does not and should not negate the value of the traditional roles of partner and mother, that these roles are essential and are among the choices available to them.”          

            Perhaps the women - and men - who follow us will find an easier path to combining meaningful work with rich personal lives. “As I look at the women entering the workplace today, they are in a different position to balance their lives,” says Janet Hayes. “Maternity and child care leaves have been vastly improved. Paternity leaves exist. Life-style balancing is an acknowledged challenge.”           

            For the past 25 years, we have spoken with what Harvard psychologist Carol Gilligan calls “a different voice.” We have tried to live lives that honor our values—in the workplace, the community and in our homes. As we continue our personal quests, may we do so with a generosity of spirit. “There is still much work to be done in terms of equity,” points out Ellie Pancoe, “but I want my daughters to look beyond feminism to humanism. What interests me now is not how women can fight their way to equal status with men, but rather how both men and women can be allowed to display and accept each other’s full humanity. This is what I work for in my personal relationships and in the positions of influence I hold. It is the legacy I want for my kids.”

 

Read Any Good Books Lately?

Just a Few…….

Favorites are designated with a  

The Bible

 

 

The Dictionary

 

 

 

Beliefs and Blasphemies

 

Virginia Hamilton Adair

 

Tuesdays with Morrie

 

Mitch Albom

Little Women

 

Louisa May Alcott

 

The Lone Ranger and Tonto Fistfight in Heaven

 

Sherman Alexie

 

Chocolate for the Woman's Heart and Soul

 

Kay Allenbaugh

 

House of Spirits

 

Isabel Allende

 

Paula

 

Isabel Allende

 

Cavedweller

 

Dorothy Allison

 

How the Garcia Girls Lost their Accent

 

Julia Alvarez

 

In the Time of Butterflies

 

Julia Alvarez

 

D-Day

 

Stephen Ambrose

Nocomachean Ethics

 

Aristotle

Game of Kings

 

Dorothy Arnette

 

Days of Grace

 

Arthur Ashe

Clan of the Cave Bear

 

Jean Auel

 

Persuasion

 

Jane Austen

Pride and Prejudice

 

Jane Austen

 

Illusions

 

Richard Bach

 

The Regulators

 

Richard Bachman (Steven King)

 

Anais Nin

 

Dierdre Bain

 

A Quiet Life

 

Beryl Bainbridge

Simple Abundance

 

Sarah Ban Breathnach

 

Regeneration

 

Pat Barker

 

Dave Barry Turns 50

 

Dave Barry

 

Cupid and Diana

 

Christina Bartolomeo

 

Stalingrad

 

Antony Beevor

 

The Plague Tales

 

Ann Benson

 

Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil

 

Jeremy Berendt

 

Raising Boys

 

Steve Biddulph

 

Leaving the Doll's House

 

Claire Bloom

 

Shakespeare: Inventor of Humanity

 

Harold Bloom

 

The Seekers

 

Daniel Boorstin

Something Wicked This Way Comes

 

Ray Bradbury

 

All Over But the Shouting

 

Rick Bragg

 

The Cat Who Sang for the Birds

 

Lillian Jackson Braun

 

The Women's Great Lakes Reader

 

Victoria Brehm, ed.

 

The Universe Below

 

William Broad

 

Greatest Generation

 

Tom Brokaw

Southern Discomfort

 

Rita Mae Brown

 

A Walk in the Woods

 

Bill Bryson

 

The Diaries of Christopher Isherwood

 

Katherine Bucknell, ed.

 

The Master and Margarita

 

Mikhail Bulgakov, et.al

Secret Garden

 

Frances Hodgson Burnett

 

The Wanderer

 

Fanny Burney

 

Cold Sassy Tree

 

Olive Ann Burns

 

Possession

 

A.S. Byatt

 

How the Irish Saved Civilization

 

Thomas Cahill

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

 

Richard Carlson

 

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff with Family

 

Richard Carlson

Alice in Wonderland

 

Lewis Carroll

 

Silent Spring

 

Rachel Carson

 

The Education of Little Tree

 

Forrest Carter

The Horse's Mouth

 

Joyce Cary

 

My Antonia

 

Willa Cather

 

Wild Swans

 

Jung Chang/Peg Kerr

Songlines

 

Bruce Chatwin

 

Life and Death in Shanghai

 

Nien Cheng

 

Mount Dragon

 

Lincoln Child

 

Seven Spiritual Laws of Success

 

Deepak Chopra

 

Red Storm Rising

 

Tom Clancy

 

Noble House

 

James Clavell

 

What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day

 

Pearl Cleage

 

Age of Iron

 

J. M. Coetzee

 

The Poet

 

Michael Connelly

 

Beach Music

 

Pat Conroy

 

True North

 

Jill Ker Conway

 

Women of Power and Grace

 

Timothy Conway

Eleanor Roosevelt

 

Blanche Wiesen Cook

 

Point of Origin

 

Patricia Cornwell

East to Eden

 

Charles Corwin

 

Corelli's Mandolin

 

Louis De Bernieres

 

Reading in the Dark

 

Seamus Deane

 

Plum Island

 

Nelson DeMille

 

Guns, Germs and Steel

 

Jared Diamond

 

Great Expectations

 

Charles Dickens

 

One Pair of Hands

 

Monica Dickens

 

Your Best Years Yet

 

Jinny S. Ditzler

Dancing at the Rescal Fair (Montana series)

 

Ivan Doig

 

Crime and Punishment

 

Fydor Dostoevsky

Sherlock Holmes

 

Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

 

Rebecca

 

Daphne du Maurier

 

Caprice and Rondo

 

Dorothy Dunnett

Embraced by the Light

 

Betty J. Eady

 

Evita Peron

 

Tomas de Elia, ed.

 

A Romance

 

Nora Ephron

 

The Horse Whisperer

 

Nicholas Evans

 

Birdsong

 

Sebastian Faulks

 

Servant of the Empire

 

Raymond Feist

 

The Diary of Bridget Jones

 

Helen Fielding

 

Next Year in Cuba

 

Gustavo Perez Firmat

 

Death of Innocents

 

Richard Firstman

 

Future Eaters

 

Tim F. Flannery

 

Pillars of the Earth

 

Ken Follett

 

Sportswriter

 

Richard Ford

Illuminations of Hildegard of Bingen

 

Matthew Fox

 

Ten Pound Penalty

 

Dick Francis

Cold Mountain

 

Charles Frazier

 

Outlander Series

 

Diana Gabaldon

 

A Lesson Before Dying

 

Ernest J. Gaines

Snow Goose

 

Paul Gallico

 

Western Abenakis of Vermont

 

Colin Galloway

The Forsyte Saga

 

John Gallsworthy

 

One Hundred Years of Solitude

 

Gabriel Garcia Marquez

 

Lovejoy mysteries

 

Jonathan Gash

 

Deception on His Mind

 

Elizabeth George

 

In the Presence of the Enemy

 

Elizabeth George

 

The Autobiography of Henry VIII

 

Magaret George

The Prophet

 

Kahlil Gibran

 

Joshua

 

Joseph J. Girzone

 

English Country House Murders

 

Thomas Godfrey,ed.

 

Memoirs of A Geisha

 

Arthur Golden

No Ordinary Time

 

Doris Kearns Goodwin

 

Wait Until Next Year

 

Doris Kearns Goodwin

 

Spending

 

Mary Gordon

 

"M" is for Malice

 

Sue Grafton

 

"N" is for Noose

 

Sue Grafton

 

Personal History

 

Katharine Graham

 

Stargazer

 

Martha Grimes

 

Street Lawyer

 

John Grisham

 

Still Missing

 

Beth Gutcheon

 

Snow Falling on Cedars

 

David Guterson

 

Without

 

Donald Hall

Snow in August

 

Pete Hamill

 

A Civil Action

 

Jonathan Harr

 

The Nurture Assumption: Why Children Turn Out the Way They Do

 

Judith Rich Harris

 

The Healing House

 

Barbara Harwood

 

One Day as a Tiger

 

Anne Haverty

 

Art of Christian Listening

 

Thomas N. Heart

Blue Highways

 

William Least Heat Moon

 

Into the Forest

 

Jean Hegland

 

The 16 Pleasures

 

Robert Hellenga

 

A Soldier of the Great War

 

Mark Helprin

Dune

 

Frank Herbert

 

Funny Bones

 

Joan Hess

 

Skin Tight

 

Carl Hiaasen

 

A Murder for Her Majesty

 

Beth Hilgartner

 

Smilla's Sense of Snow

 

Peter Hoeg

 

Here on Earth

 

Alice Hoffman

 

Practical Magic

 

Alice Hoffman

 

Covered Wagon Women-5 Vol.

 

Kenneth Holmes, ed.

 

Cowboys are My Weakness

 

Pam Houston

 

A Prayer for Owen Meany

 

John Irving

 

Widow for One Year

 

John Irving

 

anything by her

 

Susan Isaacs

 

10 Fun Things to do Before You Die

 

Karol Jackowski

 

Inside Intel

 

Tim Jackson

 

Woman Thou Art Loosed

 

T.D. Jakes

 

A Certain Justice

 

P .D. James

Brother Eagle, Sister Sky

 

Susan Jeffers

 

Feel the Fear and Do It anyway

 

Susan Jeffers

She: Understanding Feminine Psychology

 

Robert Johnson

 

Rattlesnake Crossing

 

Judith A. Jonce

 

Ulysses

 

James Joyce

 

Perfect Storm

 

Sebastian Junger

 

Jew in the Lotus

 

Rodger Kamenetz

 

A New Song

 

Jan Karon

 

At Home in Mitford

 

Jan Karon

 

Secret Muses: The Life of Frederick Ashton

 

Julie Kavanagh

 

Best Short Stories of 1997

 

Katrina Kenison, ed

 

Ship of Gold in the Deep Blue Sea

 

Gary Kinder

 

Raising Cain

 

Daniel Kindlon

 

The Beekeeper's Apprentice

 

Laurie King

Animal Dreams

 

Barbara Kingsolver

 

High Tide in Tuscon

 

Barbara Kingsolver

 

Poisonwood Bible

 

Barbara Kingsolver

Bean Trees

 

Barbara Kingsolver

 

Amazing Grace

 

Nathan Kozol

 

Into the Wild

 

John Krakauer

 

Into Thin Air

 

John Krakauer

 

The Unbearable Lightness of Being

 

Milan Kundera

 

4 Ways to Forgiveness

 

Ursula La Guinn

 

Soul Harvest

 

Tim F.  LaHaye

 

Tribulation Force: The Continuing Drama of Those Left Behind

 

Tim F. LaHaye

 

This Much I Know is True

 

Wally Lamb

Bird By Bird

 

Anne Lamott

 

Nicolae

 

Tim F. Lattaye, Jerry B. Jenkins

 

Sons and Lovers

 

D.H. Lawrence

 

Lost Woods

 

Linda J. Lear

To Kill a Mockingbird

 

Harper Lee

 

Circle of Quiet

 

Madeleine L'Engle

Sand County Almanac

 

Aldo Leopold

 

Chronicles of Narnia

 

C.S. Lewis

Babbitt

 

Sinclair Lewis

Main Street

 

Sinclair Lewis

 

Einstein's Dreams

 

Alan P. Lightman

 

Dance on Blood

 

Gillian Linscott

 

The Inn at Lake Divine

 

Elinor Lipman

 

Heatwave:Women in Love and Lust

 

Penelope Lively

 

1916

 

Morgan Llywelyn

 

About this Life

 

Barry Holstun Lopez

 

Cry of the Halidon

 

Robert Ludlum

Daughters of Time

 

Lucinda H. MacKethan

 

The Long Walk to Freedom

 

Nelson Mandela

 

Small Miracles

 

Yitta Halberstam Mandelbaum

 

Zenzele

 

J. Nozipo Maraire

 

West into the Night

 

Beryl Markham

 

Final Curtain

 

Ngaio Marsh

 

Peter the Great

 

Robert Massie

 

The Snow Leopard

 

Peter Matthiessen

 

Toujours Provence

 

Peter Mayle

 

Under the Tuscan Sun

 

Frances Maynes

 

The Color of Water

 

James McBride

 

Lucky Bastard

 

Charles McCarry

 

Angela's Ashes

 

Frank McCourt

Thorn Birds

 

Colleen McCullough

 

Truman

 

David McCullough

Charming Billy

 

Alice McDermott

 

Somme

 

Lyn McDonald

 

Stone River

 

James Lee McDonough

 

Building Your Self Image

 

Josh McDowell

 

Amsterdam

 

Ian McEwan

 

The Assylum

 

Patrick McGrath

anything by him

 

John McPhee

 

Blackberry Winter

 

Margaret Mead

 

1912 Titanic

 

Lil Meredith

 

Fugitive Pieces

 

Anne Michaels

 

God: A Biography

 

Jack Miles

 

Evening

 

Susan Minot

Gone with the Wind

 

Margaret Mitchell

 

Up in the Old Hotel

 

Joseph Mitchell

 

Lost in Translation

 

Nicole Mones

 

Bluest Eye

 

Toni Morrison

 

Rumpole of the Bailey

 

John Cliff Mortimer

 

Diana: Her Story

 

Andrew Morton

 

A Stranger in the Kingdom

 

Howard Frank Mosher

 

Born Naked

 

Farley Mowat

 

Martin Dressler

 

Steven Mullhauser

 

Strong Women Stay Young

 

Miram Nelson

 

The Eight

 

Katherine Neville

 

Bird Artist

 

Howard Norman

 

Cloister Walks

 

Kathleen Norris

 

We Were the Mulvaneys

 

Joyce Carol Oates

 

anything by him

 

Patrick O'Brien

 

Are You Somebody

 

Nuala O'Faolain

 

The English Patient

 

Michael Ondaatje

 

9 Steps to Financial Freedom

 

Suze Orman

 

anything by her

 

Sarah Paretsky

 

The Brothers of Gwynedd Quartet

 

Edith Pargeter

 

The Idea Factory

 

Valerie Parv

 

No Safe Place

 

Richard North Patterson

 

Hatchet

 

Gary Paulsen

 

An Instance of the Fingerpost

 

Ian Pear

 

Getting the Love You Want

 

M. Scott Peck

The Road Less Traveled

 

M. Scott Peck

 

Here Be Dragons (series)

 

Sharon Kay Penman

 

The Sunne in Splendour

 

Sharon Kay Penman

 

Deadly Innocence

 

Robert Perske

 

Brother Cadfael Mysteries

 

Ellis Peters

Machine Dreams

 

Jayne Anne Phillips

The Shelter of Each Other

 

Mary Pipher

 

Reviving Ophelia

 

Mary Pipher

 

Donnie Brasco

 

Joseph D. Pistone

Sherwood Ring

 

Elizabeth Pope

 

The Shipping News

 

Annie Proulx

 

Black and Blue

 

Anna Quindlen

 

One True Thing

 

Anna Quindlen

 

Ishmael

 

Daniel Quinn

 

It's Always Something

 

Gilda Radner

 

Daniel Webster

 

Robert Vincent Ramini

 

Atlas Shrugged

 

Ayn Rand

The Fountainhead

 

Ayn Rand

 

10th Insight

 

James Redfield

 

Violin

 

Anne Rice

 

Unplug the Christmas Machine

 

Jo Robinson

 

Old Books Rare Friends

 

Leona Rostenberg

 

American Pastoral

 

Philip Roth

 

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone

 

J. K. Rowling

 

God of Small Things

 

Arundhati Roy

 

London

 

Edward Rutherford

 

Sarum

 

Edward Rutherford

 

The Island of the Colorblind

 

Oliver Sacks

 

The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat

 

Oliver Sacks

Franny and Zooey

 

J.D. Salinger

 

Five Red Herrings

 

Dorothy Sayers

Gaudy Night

 

Dorothy Sayers

 

Thrones, Dominations

 

Dorothy Sayers

 

Dr. Laura's 10 Commandments

 

Laura Schlesinger

 

The Reader

 

Bernhard Schlink

 

The Fatigue Artist

 

L.S.Schwartz

 

A Fez of the Heart

 

Jeremy Seal

 

Alexander the Great: His Armies and Campaigns

 

Nick Sekunda, John Warry

 

Turkish Reflections

 

Mary Lee Settle

 

Killer Angels

 

Michael Shaara

 

Henry V

 

William Shakespeare

 

Romeo and Juliet

 

William Shakespeare

Sassafras, Cypress and Indigo

 

Ntozake Shange

 

Hoopi, Shoopi Donna

 

Suzanne Shea

 

Windmills of God

 

Sidney Sheldon

 

The Weight of Water

 

Anita Shreve

 

anything by her

 

Anne Rivers Siddons

 

With Fire and Sword

 

Henryk Sienkiewicz

 

Dakotah

 

Lauraine Snelling

 

Longitude

 

Dava Sobel

 

Ballad of Peckham Rye

 

Muriel Spark

The Notebook

 

Nicholas Sparkes

Angle of Repose

 

Wallace Stegner

Crossing to Safety

 

Wallace Stegner

 

A Hope in the Unseen

 

Ron Suskind

 

Joy Luck Club

 

Amy Tan

 

Why are All The Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?

 

Beverly Daniel Tatum

Eloise

 

Kay Thompson

War and Peace

 

Leo Tolstoy

 

The Bible and the Sword

 

Barbara Tuchman

Huckleberry Finn

 

Mark Twain

Breathing Lessons

 

Anne Tyler

 

Ladder of Years

 

Anne Tyler

 

Kristin Lavansdatter

 

Sigrid Undset

 

Exodus

 

Leon Uris

 

A Year’s Turning

 

Michael Viney

 

By the Light of My Father's Smile

 

Alice Walker

When I am Old I Shall Wear Purple

 

Alice Walker

 

Winter Wheat

 

Mildred Walker

 

Chanel, A Biography

 

Janet Wallach

Good Marriages

 

Judith Wallerstein

 

Arts and Lies

 

Jeanette Weatherspoon

 

Divine Secrets of the YaYa Sisterhood

 

Rebecca Wells

 

Little Alters

 

Rebecca Wells

 

The Optimist's Daughter

 

Eudora Welty

 

The Wedding

 

Dorothy West

 

Ethan Frome

 

Edith Wharton

 

Year of Liberty

 

Kevin Whelan

Charlotte's Web

 

E.B. White

 

Little House on the Prairie series

 

Laura Ingalls Wilder

 

Imagining to Learn

 

Jeffrey Wilhelm

 

A Man in Full

 

Tom Wolfe

 

Bonfire of the Vanities

 

Tom Wolfe

 

In the Pharoah's Army

 

Tobias Wolfe

Orlando

 

Virginia Woolf

 

To the Lighthouse

 

Virginia Woolfe

 

The Gift of Healing

 

Olga Worrell

 

What's so Amazing about Grace

 

Philip Yancey

 

Coping with Prednisone

 

Eugenie Zuckerman

 Books and Movies That Changed Our Lives 

Books

The Bible

 

 

personal growth books

 

 

Ants on the Melon

 

Virginia Hamilton Adair

Her books

 

Jane Austen

Simple Abundance

 

Sarah Ban Breathnach

In Cold Blood

 

Truman Capote

Eleanor Roosevelt

 

Blanche Wiesen Cook

Sex for One

 

Betty Dodson

Protein Power Diet

 

Michael R. Eades

Embraced by the Light

 

Betty Eadie

Science and Health

 

Mary Baker Eddy